An opinion is a subjective statement or thought on an issue based on perspective, beliefs, desires and understanding that is a result of emotion or interpretation of fact.
So why do we ask someone else for their opinion on our opinion?
Although an opinion can be changed with an introduction to new facts presented, does it really change our base opinion?
If I buy a pink dress that I really like and feel like it looks good on me, why would I ask my husband for his opinion? If I am the one that likes it and it makes me feel good, does his opinion really matter?
If he tells me it makes me look just like Ms. Piggy and I take it back, is it because he changed my opinion or because my opinion wasn’t that strong to start with; it was wavering?
As women our opinions fluctuate with this little thing called “peer acceptance”. Our opinions are not really our own, but rather based on what we feel others think about it. This is especially true in the areas of fashion, relationships and self-worth. It takes someone who has a unwavering opinion to set the precedent for what is “normal” in these areas. Someone decides that the “little black dress” is the must have and millions of women adopt that opinion as their own because it is a “proved and safe” opinion to have. You feel as though you will not be judged for wearing that “little black dress” because someone else said it was OK.
What do you think? Are your opinions your own or are they influenced by others?