Guest Post – Women Should Count It All….What?

Today’s guest blogger is my mom*.

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Women Should Count it all…WHAT?

    Recently I was memorizing James 1:1-5 (This has been edited from yesterdays post to contain the correct scripture. My mom gave me the wrong one and she’s real sorry to confuse you. She’ll even make you some fudge to make it up.) and began to see these verses in a different way. Read verses 1-4 and think about what is says. Does that really mean we are to find joy in difficulties? That’s just not easy to do. Then I discovered in verse 5 something I’d not seen before. But before we get to that, let me share something else.

When I discovered this truth, I offered to lead our women’s team devotion time one week and was prepared to share this new insight. That was pre-flood in Nashville. Then on the weekend of May 1 an unheard of disaster hit our city and many others in Tennessee. We canceled the meeting that week as a result of folks not being able to get to the office and rescheduled about two weeks later.

As we began our meeting and I shared, it took on a whole different meaning as many faced such difficulties due to the flood. In fact, Tanya, one of our team members lost her home and car. How did God know we would need this lesson that week? He not only knew, He postponed it for this week. But the thing is, Tanya was already counting it joy as she’d shared both her pain and her strength in Christ with our team. She’s hurting and sad, but she and her husband have already been able to see what God has done to draw them into a deeper walk with Him because of this loss. That is something they wouldn’t trade for all the possessions they lost. That’s counting it all JOY!

Our first thought in trouble is usually how can I get out of or through the issue and get on with “normal” life. Charles Spurgeon said, “In shunning a trial, we are seeking to avoid a blessing.” God truly has incredible blessings as we seek Him in trials. I’ve learned so much through infertility, loved ones with cancer, difficulties with children, and a mom with dementia that I’d never know about God if I hadn’t been so desperate for Him.

Job 23:10 tell us, “Yet He knows the way I have taken; when He has tested me, I will emerge as pure gold.” That is why we can find joy even in hard times. We are being purified through it all.

But my new revelation came with verse 5. It tells us that if we lack wisdom, we should ask God to give us His wisdom and it says he will do that, generously and without criticism. I’d never really considered the order of these verses, but it dawned on me, when we are facing trials, our first thought should be to ask God for wisdom in that situation, and as we do, we will be able to find strength and even joy.

I began to think about wisdom and Solomon came to mind immediately. When God asked him what he wanted more than anything, and he could have had anything he wanted…riches, lands, fame…he asked God for wisdom. He led well while he focused on godly wisdom, but when he lost his focus, he began to fail. (1 Kings 3). Later in life, Solomon became unfaithful to God (1 Kings 11) and no longer led as the king he once was.

In my mind¸ I know that wisdom helps us count it joy in trials, but had never really seen the strong connection till now. Our FIRST reaction to trials should be to plead for God’s wisdom to navigate the situation according to His wisdom.

In the book Abide in Christ by Andrew Murray, he says this, “and live, above all, day by day in the blessed truth that, as He Himself, the living Christ Jesus, is your wisdom, your first and last care must ever be this along: to abide in Him. Abiding in Him, His wisdom will come to you as the spontaneous out-flowing of a life rooted in Him. I abide in Christ, who was made unto us wisdom from God; wisdom will be given me.”

How are you, as a mom, daily abiding in Him, seeking His wisdom, and counting it joy when you face trials? How are you teaching your children to face difficulties?

As moms, we will face various trials throughout our motherhood, many we aren’t expecting nor desiring. But as we allow God to work through each one, showing us His provision and faithfulness, we will experience a deeper walk with Him than we ever imagined.

*Chris Adams is the Senior Lead Women’s Ministry Specialist in Training and Events, LifeWay Christian Resources of the Southern Baptist Convention where she recently received the Career of Excellence Award.

Prior to her employment at LifeWay in December 1994, she was special ministries coordinator at Green Acres Baptist Church of Tyler, Texas coordinating women’s ministry and missions education.

She is an ongoing guest teacher at New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary’s Women’s Certificate Program where she received her BA in Christian Ministry.

Chris has been a consultant, speaker and conference leader in a variety of church and denominational roles.

She is consultant, contributor and guest editor of Journey, a women’s devotional magazine with monthly circulation of over 214,000 that deals with real issues women face daily.

She has compiled two books, Women Reaching Women: Beginning and Building a Growing Women’s Ministry and Transformed Lives: Taking Women’s Ministry to the Next Level, contributed to the books Leading Women to the Heart of God and HeartCall: The Call to Prayer, and has written for various publications including Home Life and Journey magazines.

Categories: chris adams, guest blogger, lifeway, women's ministry

18 replies

  1. Not really religious…but Hi Mom!

  2. left an award for you at my blog a few days ago..sorry I forgot to tell

  3. Thanks to my sweet daughter for allowing me to guest blog! What a BIG photo size you posted!!! Oh, dear. Sorry about the typo! I'd never have been able to raise my twins without the Lord's help for sure.

  4. I just remind our littles that sometimes when we are going through trials, God allows it because it helps us to grow. Yes, to purify us!Thanks for the post!

  5. Great post Mommy-Chris! I'm so glad to read something of yours here!Thank you for your daughter, the Crayon Wrangler. She is such a gift.

  6. Thank you for your reminder to ask God for wisdom… Sometimes things get over whelming and we keep asking why.. Thank you for your sweet daughter… she is a very nice person.Debbie's L'bri skincare blog'Bri is an aloe based skincare program. Most company's first ingredient is water. In our skincare products aloe is the first ingredient. Aloe is very healing to the skin.

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